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Pornography – Gasoline for Sex Crimes & Burning Relationships

| Mar 30, 2015 | Pornography |

Sexual crimes like Sexual Assault, Indecent Exposure, or Public Indecency derive from a distorted view of reality created by pornography. Whether you tried to fly off your porch as a child after watching a superman movie, or asked a woman to perform a sex act you saw in a porn video, you’ve seen the power of the media, and the mind, at work.  Add in a hyper sex drive and a chemical release in the brain and a firestorm starts brewing. Read more on the Power of Pornography.

Defining a New Reality Through Pornography

Our reality stems from what we see and the people we meet.  Most pornography users enter into a world of isolation from the real world and define their reality solely by what they see on-line or watch in videos.  To turbo charge the problem, pornography produces a high for your brain, with the chemical release of drugs which have similar properties to cocaine.  These drugs create dependency and habitual use properties.  In this fictional world, men are king and every woman does what they desire. Realistic thought is compromised.  After a while, a new reality emerges in a man’s mind.  He starts acting out what he’s seen on-line, regardless of whether it is unlawful. Inhibitions are suppressed and fantasies are played out – as a man thinks they are true.

The Recipe for Bringing Men Back From the Brink

Men need to fight the urge to use pornography.  They need to deescalate from it and stop living on the edge of a criminal, financial and relational cliff.  They can do it voluntarily now or involuntarily later, after being arrested, registering as a sex offender, and being ordered to do Sex Offender Treatment by a judge.  I promise you that voluntary is better.  Part of the fight involves accountability to others and reintegration into a healthy social life.  Isolation breeds further dangerous fantasy life, while living with relationships starves this dangerous course.

A Free Denver Men’s Support Group to Stop Pornography Use

The components of a healthy life also involve counseling and group meetings, where others can come alongside a man and help equip him to avoid destructive habits.  One group meeting in the Denver area can be attended confidentially and at no cost, by calling Greg at 303-204-7573 .  Here, men with sexual addictions gather to support, encourage and educate each other.  Hundreds of men have attended and come down from their perilous pornography and sex addiction high.

The Reward of a Life Free of Porn Use

Marriages, families and work performance will all improve when a man gets help with his porn addiction.  Imagine the man who devotes hours a day to the habit, finally changing course.  Kids now have a father at home to interact with.  Moms have a husband to love.  Employers have a more productive employee focused on the requirements of the job.

The devastating relational, criminal and monetary prices an addict pays can be avoided as a man engages with others.  Professional counseling will provide guidance on deeper issues of why a man uses porn, while interaction with other men similarly situated will provide real life examples of how to live a healthy life.  Only through the involvement of others can a man escape.  Solo white knuckling the problem does not work.

Men, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.  Call Greg at 303-204-7573 today, to be set free.  Together, we can protect your future.